Important question. Why nothing wants and how to get your taste to life

The video of the day has not been this for a long time: I want - I really want! - I am looking and finding - I buy it! So "I can't afford. " It is "uncomfortable somehow now to allow yourself something. " And if you generalize, the thing is that . . . here you don't want to. It all came to basic needs and satisfaction. You want nothing. And it's not ok. It is absolutely natural for a person to look, look, strive at least just dream.

This is the development, self -realization, and curiosity, and reward, and in principle of life. Why we don't want anything? To begin with, we are tired. Physically: Life in wartime is full of stress, we are not sleeping, we are nervous, we work excessively. And emotionally: we are waiting for good news, but even when we get them, they are usually accompanied by very bad news, and we are tired of being disappointed, as if we were driving from the inside.

Another reason I fix in my friends, clients, loved ones and in myself - even when the desire of something seems to be waking up. We turn on our hands as a baby who stretches for the candy before lunch. I will not be tired of repeating, it is important: to want to take. Want and receive. No one will rebuild us in the brick if we do not do it. After all, there will always be someone who is worse than us.

After all the victories, the breakdowns, after normalization of life (which will definitely come!) - always - people, business, companies and endeavors will be demanding our help or we will think that we have to provide it. But this does not mean that we become less important from it. And that our desires lose in price or relevance. So. How to want to want again? The first is to provide yourself with basic care.

All that I write about - try to sleep as much as you need, eat when needed, arrange an online diet and hunger strike, hug with loved ones, cry when you want to cry. Basic psychological hygiene, you understand. The second is to invent rewards. Let's say, in connection with the war, you work three times more, because people in the company have diminished, and the work is as much. Super - invent encouragement for every task.

Prepared the report - take yourself to the coffee with the croissant in the open air, and let your favorite album play in the headphones. They made a presentation and sent it to the client - super, look at the series of your favorite series, right at work, why not? The same thing outside the work: they have not missed any yoga workouts in a week - it is quite "pulling" on a new dress, the more summer collections are being sold. We go, look, we try. Third - you want something in the future.

Remember what you wanted before the war. For example, my girlfriend's daughter really wanted the Apple Watch watch, and put off from his pocket money at the bank to buy them for her birthday.

Mathematically everything came together, but when the war began, the whole bank went the Armed Forces (as it is familiar, right?) So, remember your Apple Watch and now all the money you postpone is divided into two - half in the Armed Forces (I am conditional) , half - in the same bank of the name of your cherished gift to yourself. Build plans, visualize material joys in the future. It is important, it is motivation, and normalization of yourself. There's no harm in wanting. Want - necessary.